Christmas was his favorite time of the year. Maybe that’s what urging me to
write tonight. Maybe I need to remember that.
He was always a go-getter, in spite of his rather calm
manner. That is odd. To some folks, he was calm, almost slow. To others, he
seemed like an East Coast wiseguy. But he had the softest heart.
Back to Christmas.
He was always a go-getter. He had his little shoe shine box
and when he was only 5 or 6, he’d hit the neighborhood bars where we lived at
the shore. He was adorable. The tipsy patrons couldn’t resist him. And he
learned before most other kids how to make change on the spot and how to pacify
the unruly ones and how to just get out of the way of the others.
As he got older, he progressed to paper routes. He usually
handled two at a time. He even got his first route when he was 10 and back
then, at this paper, you were supposed to be 12, but he wheedled his way in by
smooth talking the district manager. Around Thanksgiving, they’d have contests
and give turkeys to whoever got the most new “starts.” He’d talk to his fave
customers, get them to “quit” and re-start. For a few years, he brought home
the turkey for the holiday and he was so proud of that. He wasn’t doing anything
illegal, or even unethical - he was simply sharp enough to work the system.
Then he was a pool boy and towel boy for the chambermaids at
the local motels.
What did he do with this money?
When Christmas came, he was little Santa. He has a flock of
littler nieces and nephews. And he always, always insisted on buying for each
and every one. And he bought for his mom. And he bought for me. And for his
aunt and uncle. And for anyone he felt close to.
On Christmas morning, the three of us (his mom, me and him)
would grab a bus and head to her sister’s home. Then he’d watch, even more
excited than the kids, even though he was just a kid himself, while they opened
what he bought.
He had an uncanny knack for knowing just what to buy for
each one, including his mom and me.
As he grew into manhood, there were tough times off and on.
But even though he’d get through them, it just about killed his spirit if he
couldn’t get Christmas gifts for friends, family and co-workers.
Yes, I miss him. He was like a son to me. But I miss his joy in Christmas giving.
Frank, I don’t think I’ll ever stop missing that.
Love you, kid.
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