See, in my way of thinking, even more than the medical
issues I might have, and those my other senior friends might have, even more
than those, is the danger we impose upon ourselves with undue stress.
Stress is unavoidable. I remember once hearing that long-ago
TV preacher, Rev. Schuller, point out that some stress is good - a violin or
guitar string must be taut, or "stressed," to make lovely music. But
in life, stress can cause a lot of grief. So knowing stress will appear no
matter what I do, I just try to manage "undue" stress.
Anyhow, today, after I finished making a few days' of
coffee, packing serving size (1/4 cup) cottage cheese snacks, making milk, and
mixing a batch of salmon/avocado salad for several days, I relaxed in other
ways.
And I was thinking about two friends, in particular.
One is 73 and now undergoing dialysis 3 days a week, about
60 miles from me, and she and her hubby must travel about 25 miles each way for
those treatments. In addition, they "garden" but I call it
"farming" because of the amount they produce on their lot. They have
really managed to get a lot of mileage from that spot they've got, day after
day taking care of that plot. And somehow, they are dealing with this, and
still have their sense of humor, and still make 300 hats on a knitting loom
each year for our charity crafting group. Amazing.
The other one I've never met in person. She's a cyber
friend. And she and her guy live in Canada, in an area where they get really
wicked winters. There's rarely a day goes by without my seeing her post a photo
of the jars she's canned that day. It ranges from about 6 to 16 or more, at
times. She puts up everything possible. When they get snowed in, they do not
need to fret running out to a store. But even so, I don't know where they get
the consistent energy needed for that, day after day.
Yep, I do things in spurts. I'm grateful I can do that. But
I truly respect and admire those who do far more than I can, and more than I
think I even want to at this point.
Rolling along...
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