Still, all
that is easy in theory. In real life, it is one of the hardest things to
develop.
In our
household, we are trying hard to be patient and relaxed about the SSDI
application we put into place in mid-June for my middle-aged nephew. We were
told by the lawyers that his case was almost certain to be approved. However,
we were also told it could take anywhere from 6 months to 18 months to come
through. Much of that delay is because he had absolutely no medical
coverage for several years prior to the application. That meant no
documentation regarding his condition.
It took two
months to work our way through the agencies locally to get a county medical
card for him. This one benefit began to open doors. He now has ongoing treatment
for his medical problems. He now has documentation which was finally sent to
the SSDI people two weeks ago when we got it. He has a doctor willing to verify
that he cannot ever hold a normal job again. But with the SSDI backlog of previously filed
cases, we pray we will not "go under" while we wait.
Meanwhile,
we just heard from one of my nephew's old school friends on Sunday. This man's
brother got his SSDI within 3 months of filing. That is amazing. But, this
fellow also had a condition that was constantly documented for years before he
filed. That makes a big difference.
What I'm
trying to say is that for many of us, waiting for God to work things out for us
is very difficult.
I have a dear friend back east who is facing worse problems
than we are. Her DH has been ill for many years. He is now almost unable to
walk. She has such severe back problems that they suggested surgery. For
several reasons, she declined and has decided to stick with meds instead.
Meanwhile, she must do all she can for her DH. They also face a huge increase
in their rent next month - a $100 increase.
Another
friend, local, is facing losing her mobile home rental. She will likely have to
sell her vehicle, and find new homes for her beloved dogs.
My heart
aches for these folks. I wish I could help financially. I trust that the Lord
will help them in the perfect way for each of them. But how long will it take?
Can they manage to stay sane and in faith while they wait?
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